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Your Business Behavior Affects Your Consumer’s Behavior

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stick_figure_holding_membership_card_1600_clr_3914The most important piece of knowledge any business must have is what the behavior of their consumer is as they relate and interact with your business and brand.

What do consumers do when they have a positive experience with your business?

Do they care? Will they come back? Do they tell anyone?

How about when they have a negative experience? What happens then?

Recently Accent conducted a survey to find out what consumers do when they interact with brands before and after a purchase.

Want To Be Seen as Credible, Competent, and Admired? Don’t Conform!

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leader_of_the_pack_pc_1600_clr_1593A recent study has demonstrated that intentionally going against the grain can gain you competence, respect, and even credibility from others.  The study published in the Journal of Consumer Research examined how what people wear does affects others perceptions in a positive way¹.

What did they find?  When people dress in a way that goes against the convention they are seen as more competent and seen as having a hire status than those people who conformed and dressed like everyone else.

Let me give you an example:  You know how you are invited to a party and they say it’s “Black Tie”…the fact is if you intentionally show up in jeans and jacket you more likely to be viewed as successful and competent.  Why?

1.  People who do not conform are seen as truly “FREE”…they have autonomy.

2.  People have a desire to be unique and admire that in others , and therefore are perceived as someone confident and of higher social status.

*Let’s face it…it’s easy to conform…everybody else does…right?*

Shhh…Are You Friends with a Gossiper? Don’t Tell Them This…But…They are Your Best Source for Word of Mouth Marketing.

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rumor_mill_1600_clr_9751Do you have people within your social media platforms who like to gossip?  Sure.  We all do.  Did you know that those gossipers may be just the people you want to develop the strongest relationships with in order to give your business buzz?

What is a gossiper?  It has been defined as “an instrumental transaction in which A and B trade small talk about C for something in return²’’(p. 158)

The point is they are talking for a reason, whether it is power, control, prestige, fame, leverage, or just simply trying to find a way to boost their safe esteem.  The fact is gossipers like to talk.  This enjoyment of talking can, like most thing be used for good or evil.  If you as a business owner do the create the right time of relationship with a gossiper, that gossiper can be your most effective agent for “electronic word of mouth{ (eWOM) for your business.

Recent research from the Journal of Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking investigated the question “Do Online Gossipers Promote Brands?¹” What they found gave us insights into the psychology of the gossiper.

Here are some of their conclusions regarding the psychology of Gossipers:

Do People Really Read What You Write?

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I am notorious for long posts.  Truth is, I have about 111 words to make my point, before over half of you will go bye-bye.

Still reading? Great! Statistic Brain recently verified some statistics (see below) on our attention span.  Chances are you will only read 49% of a 111 word webpage.

That may sound awful, but you should know that the average web page is about 593 words, and only 28% of the page is read. Are You still reading?

R.I.P. The Death of the Facebook Business Page for Small Business

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If you are a small business with that “FREE” Facebook Business Page…it is in a coma…and soon DEAD!

RiP Facebook 1Remember the good old days.  Facebook allowed you to build a business page for free and people could voluntarily “Like” your page and if they did, when you posted something it would show up on your fans news feed?

Then you remember when Facebook decided to limit the number of people who could see your posts from your business even though they “opted” in because Facebook wanted to make money?

So now Facebook is saying, “yeah, well we are just going to stop that whole organic thing, if you want really anyone to see your posts from your business page you will have to pay for it…pretty much all of it”.

In an article from AdAge Digital Facebook has made it clear

Holiday Gifts for Your Business and Social Media

holly_bell_pc3_1600_clr_1602It’s the holiday season.  Most people are smiling a bit more, there conversations are a bit lighter, and their countenance is a bit brighter.  I also find that not only is it my daily face to face interactions, both personally and professionally, but I am noticing it even within the different social media platforms.  Now perhaps it is my own confirmation bias, but perhaps you are seeing the same thing.

How often do we see pictures with the holiday sweater as the profile picture.   Especially the ever popular “ugly sweater” holiday parties.  Pictures of the family, posts about where we are going for the holidays, what we are doing, what we are eating, where we ate it, who made the meal, and the list goes on and on.

I guess social media takes on the same changes as any other part of our life.  Perhaps we post a little different, we are not nearly as controversial, we “Like” a little bit more, “Comment” a little more thoughtfully, “Share” a few more posts, “ReTweet” more quickly, and “+1” with emphasis.

red_white_presents_pc_1600_clr_1452I know that as psychology professional that social media can be narcissistic, ego driven (well maybe perhaps Id driven), but honestly

Digging into Your Mind: Google Lets You Take the Rorschach Ink Blot Test

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Hermann_Rorschach_c.1910Today is Hermann Rorshach’s birthday, he would have been 129 today.  Hermann Rorschach was a Swiss born Freudian Psychologist who only lived until he was 38 years old, but he handed us something that even if you do not believe in it, is in fact interesting.  It is called the Rorshach Ink blot test.

I am sure you have seen them, it looks like someone spilled some different colored ink on a piece of paper they folded it in half and out comes some pattern.  Well basically that’s how it was done.  There are standard ink blots that over the decades have been used to identify a number of different mental and emotional disorders and thought processes.

I was fortunate enough as an psychology intern while in graduate school to work on a forensic ward where I received some training on giving the Rorschach to specific patients.  I must say when you are working with those who have some sort of mental/emotional dysfunction and have committed a serious crime you can only imagine some of the most amazing and unusual answers and themes that patients will see when they look into a set of Rorschach ink blots.

Well in honor of Dr. Rorschach’s 129th birthday today Google search is

So You Want More Leads…Is that what you call them?

My friend and colleague Brad Carroll, CEO of Dakno an Internet Marketing Group, www.dakno.com turned me on to something that was just so phenomenal that I had to write about it immediately.

So often we talk about “leads”. I have even made the mistake at times of using this term. First, I want to apologize for the usage of this term. From here on out, I will make a conscious effort to forsake this term, because these are people looking for information. When I reduce them to a lead, I have done nothing more than make them a number, or put them into a category.

The truth is these are people who want some information, maybe it is not specific to what you were hoping for, but have you ever thought that these people are asking for information from you because they find you trustworthy, you have relevant information on your website, or possibly they may have nowhere else to turn.

Even if this is not the type of individual you were hoping to speak to, the fact that they contacted you, puts the ball in your court, and you have a responsibility to contact them, even if it is with a recommendation to someone else. To ignore these people is the worst thing you could do for your future business. These are people, these are people with questions, these are people with needs and wants, and they are looking for someone to help them. Are you that person? Watch this video compliments of www.1000wattblog.com I hope you will agree with me…it is time to abandon this term.

I am not a lead

Stay Successful My Friends!

Dr. Jay

Who is Jay Izso, The Internet Doctor®?

Just a brief introduction for the curious.

First of all my name is Jay Izso.

I have my Bachelors Degree in Psychology from Doane College, and a Masters or Science degree in Psychology from Washington State University.

In 1996 I joined my wife’s real estate team which consisted of her and 2 part time assistants.  I found ways through the internet and social media to grow her business and help reduce her marketing expenses.  I also trained her sales staff on how to better relate to their clients and increase sales.

I am a speaker, author, and consultant.  I talk about ways of empowering your business through psychology.  I am the registered trademark as the Internet Doctor®.  It is why people will occasionally refer to me as Dr. Jay.  As the Internet Doctor® I diagnose the problems with businesses both in the online world and the face to face world and prescribe solutions to enhance, increase, and make your business more efficient.

I am a Social Mediologist, that is, one who studies social media from the psychological perspective of the user.  I am an consumer analyst as one who studies and researches consumer behavior.

When you are ready for a different solution please contact me at Jay Izso, Internet Doctor®

Stay Successful!

Jay Izso, Internet Doctor®

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